When willpower wears thin: Ego depletion, the pressure to perform, and what the latest research reveals
Have you ever felt too tired to be kind? This reflective essay explores the psychology of ego depletion—why emotional exhaustion can lead us to withdraw, lash out, or feel disconnected. Drawing on recent research by Tripathi & Miraglia (2025), Olbie (2025), and Inzlicht et al. (2014), the article examines how self-regulation is taxed in the workplace and why the performance of authenticity may be as draining as hiding. It offers a gentle lens on why we “snap” and what it means to come back to ourselves.








